1,700 People Share What They Enjoy—One Answer Won

When Upworthy asked their Facebook audience what they enjoy that others find odd, they expected answers about quirky hobbies or unusual interests. What they got instead was a resounding chorus of people celebrating something deeply human: time alone.

Out of 1,700 responses, one answer dominated all others. People in every demographic shared variations of the same theme: they love being alone in silence.

"Feeling perfectly content, when I'm all alone," wrote one person. Another shared, "Being home. Alone. In silence." The responses painted a picture of people finding genuine peace in their own company, not as an escape from others, but as something they actively treasure.

The stereotype suggests that people who crave alone time must be antisocial or troubled. Science tells a different story. Studies show that people who enjoy solitude aren't more introverted than those who don't, though they tend to be less "sociable" in the traditional sense.

More surprisingly, solitude lovers are less neurotic and more open-minded than the general population. "If our stereotypes about people who like being alone were true, then we should find that they are neurotic and closed-minded. In fact, just the opposite is true," writes psychologist Bella DePaulo.

Why This Inspires

This collective confession reminds us that needing space isn't a weakness or character flaw. It's a form of self-knowledge and self-care that deserves celebration.

Psychologist Tara Well points out that being comfortable alone is actually a strength. People who can't tolerate solitude may stay in harmful jobs or relationships simply to avoid being by themselves, which can limit their life choices and happiness.

The good news? Even people who don't naturally enjoy alone time can learn to make it rewarding. Setting aside a few minutes daily for reflection, journaling, or a quiet walk can transform solitude from uncomfortable to nourishing.

The 1,700 responses reveal something hopeful about our culture. More people are recognizing that self-care includes quality time with ourselves, and they're not afraid to say it out loud. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely, and enjoying your own company isn't something that needs defending.