Pastor Shares Boundaries to Protect Counselling Sessions
A renowned Ghanaian pastor is helping religious counselors avoid misconduct by teaching clear professional boundaries. His practical advice comes as more faith leaders seek guidance on maintaining ethical relationships.
Pastor DY Donkoh knows that good intentions aren't always enough to prevent mistakes. Speaking on Joy Prime's Let's Talk, he shared wisdom that could protect both counselors and those seeking help.
His message is straightforward. Even anointed spiritual leaders are still human and face the same temptations as everyone else.
The pastor offered specific guidance for counseling sessions, especially with members of the opposite sex. He advised against physical comfort like embraces when someone is emotional or crying, noting these actions can blur professional lines even when words remain appropriate.
If a counselor feels attracted to someone seeking help, Pastor Donkoh recommends a simple solution. Invite another person to sit in during the session.
He also warned against language that crosses boundaries. Comments about someone's appearance, comparisons to their spouse, or suggestions that a husband doesn't deserve them create dangerous territory in what should be a professional relationship.
Emotional promises pose risks too. Statements like "I'll be there for you 24 hours" or "call me anytime" might sound supportive, but they create false security and emotional dependence that can lead relationships astray.
Pastor Donkoh's advice emerged during a discussion about a young woman who reported entering a five-month sexual relationship with a religious counselor she'd approached for guidance. His response focused not on blame but on prevention.
Why This Inspires
What makes Pastor Donkoh's message powerful is its honesty. He doesn't pretend spiritual leaders are immune to human weaknesses. Instead, he acknowledges reality and offers practical tools anyone can use.
His willingness to discuss uncomfortable topics openly helps create safer spaces for vulnerable people seeking guidance. By naming specific boundary violations, he gives both counselors and clients clear standards to recognize and maintain.
The advice extends beyond religious settings. Therapists, mentors, coaches, and anyone in helping professions can apply these principles to protect the people they serve.
Training and awareness can prevent harm before it happens, one counseling session at a time.
Based on reporting by Myjoyonline Ghana
This story was written by BrightWire based on verified news reports.
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