Rugby Volunteer Heather Bonnar Honored After 40 Years

When Heather Bonnar first showed up at Kirkcaldy RFC nearly 40 years ago, she had no idea rugby would become her second family. Today, the Scottish club volunteer is being honored at Edinburgh Rugby's Hive Stadium for four decades of service that went far beyond keeping score.

Heather has done it all. She's coached young players, managed team kits on tours, served as Child Protection Officer, and even project managed the construction of an accessible toilet facility last year.

But her favorite role? "Aunty Heather," the nickname given by generations of kids who grew up at the club.

"I just love to help, and if I can't do it myself, I'll find someone who can," Heather says. Her own sons went through the youth program, and watching them play their first senior matches remains one of her proudest memories.

For Heather, the club stopped being just about rugby long ago. Players who moved away for professional careers come back with their own children now, continuing the cycle.

She's made friends from around the world through Kirkcaldy RFC, many of whom she still vacations with today.

Why This Inspires

Heather's recognition at a professional women's rugby match sends a powerful message about the backbone of amateur sports. Every grassroots club in Scotland runs on volunteers like her, people who show up year after year without expecting glory.

Her longtime collaborator Colin Parsons has been with the club over 20 years. "He's the nicest human being, and nothing fazes him," Heather says. Then there's Stuart Oliver, her "sidekick" who handles funding and keeps everyone laughing with practical jokes.

Delivering the match ball before Edinburgh Rugby faces Gwalia Lightning means more to Heather than personal recognition. "There are loads of amazing volunteers at every club, and without them, we simply wouldn't have clubs," she says.

The ceremony celebrates not just one woman's commitment, but thousands of volunteers across Scotland who turn sports clubs into communities.

Heather still goes by "Aunty Heather" because for her, that title matters most—it means she helped raise generations of players who became family.